Friday, April 8, 2016

Alcohol and Drinking in Bhutan

A group drinks to celebrate Rimdro together


The Scourge of Alcohol Abuse

Alcohol is one of the most widely used—and most misused—drugs known to humanity. It is not merely a personal failing but a deep social issue. The habit of drinking has wrapped its arms around our society and is slowly strangling it. Its effects on health, career, and family life are disastrous.

One reason alcohol is so commonly misused is that society accepts it. People drink to be sociable. Many restaurants and shops offer alcohol on their menus. Alcohol is routinely included in celebrations, family gatherings, and social events. For example, we cannot seem to do away with alcohol even during Rimdros (religious rituals).

Drinking often begins at an early age, initially for fun or out of a sense of fashion. Parents usually model the behavior. Children copy their parents and elders, secretly trying drinks. Gradually, casual drinkers become chain drinkers. It becomes a habit that dies hard. The drinker comes to believe that alcohol is necessary for him. He argues that drinking eases his tension and helps him concentrate on serious problems. This mistaken belief costs him both money and health. Drinking, they say, causes cancer. It is injurious to health. Yet the hardened drinker listens to no advice or warning. He could give up this evil if he built up his willpower, but instead he takes offense when advised.

Health Risks

One major risk of alcohol abuse is serious health problems. The leading cause of death among heavy drinkers is cirrhosis of the liver. Alcohol also damages the brain, heart, kidneys, and digestive system. Cancer of the mouth, throat, esophagus, liver, and stomach becomes a real threat as well. The well-known South Indian actor Kalabhavan Mani recently died from alcohol. Mani was only 45 years old and knew he had liver cirrhosis. Yet instead of making it his priority not to drink, he forced himself to drink. He was not a child who could be forced to do something against his will.

Moderation vs. Excess

Lately, scientists have been saying that a small amount of alcohol with dinner is not only acceptable but may even be good for you. This is true only in moderation. They say a small amount of alcohol can help you sleep. Drinking a moderate amount daily may benefit your health in the long run. A moderate amount is considered to be one drink per day for women and two drinks per day for men. This can raise your HDL ("good cholesterol") levels, which helps protect your heart against disease and heart attacks. Moderate daily alcohol can also lower your risk of developing diabetes by increasing insulin sensitivity.

However, if you take advantage of that license and drink in excess, the effects on health are severe. Alcohol calms you down but also slows down vital organs. It has serious short-term effects. If you become addicted or drink heavily over a long period, you may shorten your lifespan by about 12 years and suffer many serious side effects.

Workplace and Career Damage

Alcoholism takes a heavy toll in the workplace and can destroy careers. The "hangovers" lead to sleeping late and waking up late. Once at work, such individuals only hang back. Projects stall as they malinger.

Harm to Family and Society

As a result of alcohol abuse, children and other family members are often mistreated. Alcoholics cause spousal abuse and, in some cases, even death. Many women at RENEW (Respect, Educate, Nurture, and Empower Women) have been badly beaten by their husbands. Families are destroyed, and children are left to live lives full of suffering. Alcohol totally consumes the abuser—all their thoughts and actions somehow become associated with the drug. Personal relationships are torn apart. The consequences of alcohol misuse are serious not only for the self but also for family, friends, and especially children. Many rapes in Bhutan are related to alcoholism.

Accessibility and Cultural Attitudes

Alcohol is accessible nearly everywhere. This easy access is a key reason why alcohol abuse and alcoholism are such common problems in Bhutan. Alcohol abuse means drinking more alcohol than is socially, psychologically, or physically healthy. In Bhutan, alcoholism is tragically associated with a kind of "manhood." Our passion for spurious liquor aligns us with those third-rate characters shown in movies and roaming the streets—people who pride themselves on consuming such so-called liquor. We admire our lives and enjoy our drinks. But it would be a foolish death indeed to die from alcohol.


Sunday, March 20, 2016

Annual Darla Rimdro


In a thrilling break from regular maths tests, a one-day Darla School Rimdro was conducted at the Darla MPH on 17th March. The ritual, religiously branded as Tshogkhor—which roughly translates to “wish-fulfilling and well-being, terms and conditions apply”—was organized by the very same Darla School. Because nothing says “education” like a celestial wish-granting ceremony wedged between science period and lunch break.

The one-day spiritual extravaganza was presided over by His Lam Naten of Chukha Dzongkhag, who graciously agreed to oversee both the divine proceedings and the occasional wandering student.

During the ceremony, a full menu of rituals was served: butter lamps were lit (carbon footprint: minimal), Tshogkhor performed (wishes: pending), purification ritual conducted (souls: scrubbed), Tormas offered (artistic merit: high), and various other rites that kept the monks busy and the spectators respectfully confused.

As every good Buddhist knows, we are nature-worshippers who believe in divinity, the soul, and primordial energy. One highlight was Jingsey, a ritual designed to appease harmful evils, placate death spirits, and strengthen life. (Note: Death spirits, please stay placated.) This involved offering nine grains—rice, millet, wheat, maize, mustard, and several others that sound like a healthy breakfast bowl—plus flowers, fruits, and holy water. The deities, one assumes, appreciated the dietary variety.

In a move that would make modern wellness influencers proud, the celebration was simple and nature-friendly. Meat and alcohol were not served. Instead, attendees enjoyed butter tea, sugar tea, biscuits, and a pure vegetarian meal. Students were seen exchanging confused glances about the absence of momos.

Hundreds of devotees from Darla and nearby areas showed up to offer prayers at this annual Rimdro, presumably hoping for good grades, bumper harvests, or at least a day off from household chores.

The Rimdro was performed for the peace and well-being of the Darla family, the community, the King, the country, and the people.  

By all accounts, the Rimdro was a success. This was due to the worthy efforts and cooperation of teachers, principals, students, and the community. Let’s be honest: it wouldn’t have been such a lavish Rimdro without the goodwill—and wallets—of the students’ parents. The school has a charming practice of collecting Nu. 100 from each student to fund the ritual. On top of that, many parents and teachers credibly brought both cash and kind. Contributions included firewood, sacks of rice, oil bottles, vegetables, juices, and dal.

One of the school Lopens, clearly warming to his theme, explained: “Rituals such as this have multiple functions in the family and in the culture. It is an effective agent in promoting family health and well-being. Not only that, rituals facilitate the transmission of values and beliefs. Rituals provide support and containment for strong emotions. Facilitation of coordination between individuals, families and communities.” 

He added that rituals help families deal with transitions and losses, bring about healing, and transmit values from generation to generation. They are one avenue of strengthening families and creating an environment where personal well-being is enhanced. (Also, they’re a great excuse to get everyone in one room and remind them to be nice to each other.)

Lunch was served to students and the public. No reports of food fights or ritualistic rebellions was reported.

For entertainment, students performed songs and dances—presumably to refresh themselves after all that spiritual heavy lifting.

The ritual is held annually. 

 Some photographs of the Rimdro: