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My article on happiness - happiness
redefined published by the Kuensel. The original write up was pretty long with
lots of points and elucidations, but they have ruthlessly ‘massacred’ and shorten
up. For more, read this: http://saachad9.blogspot.com/20…/…/happiness-redefined.html…
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Concepts like happiness and freedom
pose problems when it comes to defining them. Abstract words like these are
open to interpretation. For some, happiness is based solely on being part of a
loving family that is safe and contented. For others, happiness is rooted in
material possessions or the acquisition of power. Although we may have quite
different interpretations of concepts like these, in our everyday
conversations, we seem to be content with a general understanding of the
meaning.
To put it briefly, though, there are
two types of happiness: temporary and permanent. But, really, happiness is
something that is transient. There is nothing called permanent or absolute
happiness. Happiness is the accumulation of many good activities with which one
feels sufficiently gratified.
Why are we not happy? As we grow,
different aspects of live shape us – religion, culture, tradition and societal
norms, among others. We almost cease to be human and begin acting like a
machine. Religion is the first obstruction towards achieving happiness. Some
will agree, I am sure, that a deeper understanding of the spiritual world brings
greater unhappiness. In its entire entirety, more or less, religion talks about
sufferings, sins and sorrows. It has a special power to corrupt our minds by creating
fear. It doesn’t allow a person to live fully, so to speak, because it seeks
conformity.
Society, which is largely shaped by
religion, plays a big role in shaping one’s happiness. We feel compelled to
live our lives according to the control of others, rely on others opinions,
conform to their ideas and wishes, and subscribe to their beliefs. One is made
to feel too small, and there is hardly any space for individualism. When a
person cannot do what he or she wishes to do, when he or she cannot pursue
their dreams and aspirations, there can be no happiness.
True happiness can come only when a
person can listen to the wishes and inner voice of the self.
Also, true happiness can exist only
where there is little or no material development. Material development is the
other form of greed. Where greed rules, nothing will be enough, and that is the
very source of unhappiness. If happiness must be had, we should have no desire
whatsoever. But who has ever been able to banish desire altogether? So long as
there is life, there will be desire in men. Religious philosophies can sound
grand but they are often not practical. Development and technology make people
reclusive, which lead to depression. Already in our society, depression is
becoming a major health concern. The number of people taking their own lives is
growing by the year.
Happiness comes from a good relationship. Living alone in the compartments of tall buildings does not bring
happiness. How well you know your neighbours and how often you meet with your
friends and family is important so.
So, what is Gross National
Happiness, really?
Happiness is the state of being that
can come only from being kind and loving to others and being true to oneself.
But how could we be kind, long, and true to oneself and all when so many
factors come in the way? There ought to be an environment within which all these
virtues can flourish. Until this happens, there can be no happiness. We have
GNH pillars and indicators so that we can create an enabling environment within
which citizens strive for happiness. It sounds well and good in theory, but how
are we actually doing with the creation of the so-called enabling environment?
In the urban centres, elderly people are left to eke out a living by begging even
as their children live in posh houses and drive expensive cars. In the rural
pockets of the country, family and societal structures are fast breaking down.
But then, surveys continue to show
us that our people are happy. There is certainly something curious that is
going on in our society as we endeavour to define happiness and create an
environment within which people can strive to attain happiness.
In the words of Bertrand Russell: “A
man who has once perceived, however temporarily and however briefly, what makes the greatness of soul can no longer be happy if he allows himself to be petty,
self-seeking, troubled by trivial misfortunes, dreading what fate may have in
store for him. The man capable of the greatness of soul will open wide the windows
of his mind, letting the winds blow freely upon it from every portion of the
universe.”
