What do you expect when you hate your boss and the head in turn hates you?
Destruction: Disturbing the whole of the administration, disturbing the relationship, disturbing the personal happiness and disturbing dreams in the sleep. And you have the feelings of pushing the person to the farthest corner and be away from. But life is life, as the person passes in pestering, objecting and all that you don’t like to hear.
I have worked under seven heads and wonder how many more in my life before I too become a head! That is quite an atrophy, I have never liked to creep on someone else life and never will they. Some heads were as good as head should be and some heads as bad as a snake (I have a sense of senselessness when I see a snake). Please note the point of writing this: I have neither personal grudge nor envy of the success but having received some ill treatments from some heads with no reason, I smeared.
My mother told me when I joined my first job, “Whatever you do, do those please heads.” The question still lingers in my knotty head, “What that pleases me?”
And my mother was right, after seven years of job under different heads, I came to a conclusion that everybody does not pleases the work but pleases head and the head pleases the subordinates with opportunities and grades in return.
However, I am kind of radical person; I please my services and customers with not much botheration of the head. Some heads clap and some slap on my face. Difficult to understand, colleagues say, follow the middle path-not too much, not too less, just rickety-tick over, so-so work. There is no destination for them but floundering on it. There is no hard work but soft lips’ work. There is no distinction between sincere and insincere. There is no world of own; the world belongs to head. The head is the curry cooker, frying all kinds of vegetables in the same cooker. The head is his/her own way and that co-workers must follow the rigid set of his/her philosophy. There is no growth; a father wants his son to become exactly like him and then would father become happy and on the other hand, the son has no extension of his life. It is a reprobate death.
It is sad to know, there are many heads of these kind, I think their trainings on management, administration, etc, and what so certificates count not, when they have any basic value of head.
I think one responsibility as a leader is to admonish the troops who fall out of line and not appreciate who fall out from the line. I also think head should be an archetype of where he is living, broadminded, acceptable, committed, responsible, etc (The qualities and principles of heads). But as I’ve seen and learned from my many heads it turned out to be an absolutely contrary to many heads. Because of this so-called bogus heads, everything gets spoil, the taste of the curry is made because of the salt and head is like a salt. When this taste adder sometimes plays trick with his/her subordinates is what is fishy. I have seen the incidences of bullying subordinates; threatening to award less point in the final rating, and even to the point of abusing minorities. And blah blah blah…
After these entire mistakes, we say, “Head is always right.”
“Is it one head or many heads that is right?” I have a question to the readers.